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25 Signs American Women Are Being Destroyed By The Sexual Revolution And Our Promiscuous Culture

25 Signs American Women Are Being Destroyed By The Sexual Revolution And Our Promiscuous Culture - Lady Gaga Photo by T J SengelHas the sexual revolution been good for American women?  Not at all.  In fact, when you look at the facts it becomes clear that the sexual revolution has been an absolute disaster for American women.  In the United States today, men have been trained to primarily view women as sex objects, and our culture has become exceedingly promiscuous.  As a result, the United States leads the world in teen pregnancy, there are 19 million new STD infections every single year, more than half of all children born to women under the age of 30 are being born out of wedlock and we are witnessing the systematic breakdown of the family unit in America.  And yet anyone that tries to teach our young women that they should dress modestly and keep themselves pure for marriage is severely criticized.  Well, if all Americans actually did keep themselves pure until marriage, we wouldn’t have nearly the problems with STDs, teen pregnancy and abortion that we do today.  The consequences of teaching our young women that they should be “free” to run around and sleep with a whole bunch of different men have been dramatic.  The following are 25 signs that American women are being destroyed by the sexual revolution and our promiscuous culture…

#1 There are 19 million new STD infections in the United States every single year.  Approximately half of them happen to young people in the 15 to 24-year-old age bracket.

#2 It costs the U.S. health care system approximately $17,000,000,000 every single year to treat sexually transmitted diseases.

#3 There were more than 1.4 million cases of chlamydia reported in the United States in 2011.  An astounding 33 percent of those cases involved Americans that were younger than 20 years of age.

#4 It is estimated that about one out of every six Americans between the ages of 14 and 49 have genital herpes.

#5 24,000 American women become infertile each year due to undiagnosed STDs.

#6 In the United States today, approximately 47 percent of all high school students have had sex.

#7 Sadly, one out of every four teen girls in the U.S. has at least one sexually transmitted disease.

#8 According to one survey, 24 percent of all U.S. teens that have STDs say that they still have unprotected sex.

#9 Amazingly, one out of every five teen girls in the U.S. actually wants to be a teenage mother.

#10 If you can believe it, the United States has the highest teen pregnancy rate on the entire planet.  In fact, the United States has a teen pregnancy rate that is more than twice as high as Canada, more than three times as high as France and more than seven times as high as Japan.

#11 When men don’t have to wait until they get married to have sex, then they are likely to delay marriage or never get married at all.  According to the Pew Research Center, only 51 percent of all Americans that are at least 18 years old are currently married.  Back in 1960, 72 percent of all U.S. adults were married.

#12 Today, an all-time low 44.2 percent of all Americans between the ages of 25 and 34 are married.

#13 In the United States today, more than half of all couples “move in together” before they get married.

#14 The divorce rate for couples that live together first is significantly higher than for those that do not.

#15 America has the highest divorce rate on the globe by a wide margin.

#16 For women under the age of 30 living in the United States today, more than half of all babies are being born out of wedlock.

#17 At this point, more than one out of every four children in the United States is being raised by a single parent.

#18 Approximately 42 percent of all single mothers in the United States are on food stamps.

#19 The sexual revolution has caused women to be primarily looked at as sex objects.  In this kind of environment, it should be no surprise that there has been an absolute explosion of pornography in recent years.  An astounding 30 percent of all Internet traffic now goes to pornography websites, and the U.S. produces more pornography than any other nation has in the history of the world.

#20 One survey discovered that 25 percent of all employees that have Internet access in America visit sex websites while they are at work.

#21 Overall, more than 50 million babies have been killed in America since Roe v. Wade was decided in 1973.

#22 When you total up all forms of abortion, including those caused by the abortion drug RU 486, the grand total comes to more than a million abortions performed in the United States every single year.

#23 The number of American babies killed by abortion each year is roughly equal to the number of U.S. military deaths that have occurred in all of the wars that the United States has ever been involved in combined.

#24 It has been reported that a staggering 41 percent of all New York City pregnancies end in abortion.

#25 One study found that 86 percent of all abortions are done for the sake of convenience.

So what can be done about any of this?

Unfortunately, turning our culture around would not be an easy thing.  Loose sexuality is glorified on television, in the movies, on our radios and in our magazines.  Just about everywhere you turn there are very powerful sexual images.  The following is an excerpt from a recent article by Devvy Kidd

America’s culture has come a long way since the 60s. For decades it has resembled a filthy sewer and shows no signs of returning to decency. Children are being sexualized with markets targeting little girls as young as kindergarten age. Cable television (which includes ABC, CBS, NBC) has become nothing more than a purveyor of soft porn. Sexual imagery is everywhere. The filth used to be confined to porn channels like HBO, Cinemax and others which I have never had in my home. Now, it’s the ‘big three’ (ABC, CBS, NBC) and all the other networks that consistently pump sin and sex into households every night of the week.

Meanwhile, we have raised an entire generation of young males that don’t know how to be men.  Our culture has taught them to be extremely hesitant to be husbands and fathers, and instead it has taught them to be sex-obsessed idiots that want to “score” with as many women as possible.

As long as our culture pushes these values, we will continue to suffer the kinds of consequences listed above.

So what do all of you think about these things?

Do you believe that there is any hope for America?

Please feel free to post a comment with your thoughts below…

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  • Brian Miller

    Christian Fundies and their “perfect moral standards” in 3…2…1…

    • http://www.facebook.com/people/Zebram-Zee/100002539017006 Zebram Zee

      Well, Christian Fundies have their own moral problems in my opinion, but on this issue, I think they’ve got Secular Humanists beat. And this is from a non-religious person.

      • Brian Miller

        Elaborate if you will on how they have secular humanists beat?

        I’m curious to hear from you.

        • zee788

          First of all, I don’t agree with everything Christian Fundies have to say about sexuality, but here’s my argument, which is not a consequentialist one. It’s just an argument of consistency. Most people, whether liberal or conservative, still say that it’s obscene or disgusting to ogle women in public, for example. If you look at some women walking by for example, and they notice you, they will see that as disgusting and obviously immoral. And the argument is not one of just privacy. If you intrude on someone’s private domain, that is not seen as disgusting, so it’s more than about just privacy. But if this kind of lust, which I would call physical lust, as opposed to ‘lust’ out of love, which most people probably don’t even call lust but just love, is wrong, then it must extend consistently. Pornography would then also be disgusting and immoral, and so would casual sex. Even when both people consent and want to lust after each other, it would still be immoral, because the immorality in the ogling example is not just about privacy. Even lust in marriage would be immoral, which Christian Fundies probably disagree about. My opinion is that people should just be intimate out of love and affection, not out of lust.

          Now, if you don’t see ogling girls as any problem, if you have a daughter or someone and some guy looks at her like that and you can tell her that he’s not doing anything disgusting and only just being annoying, then I would say your position is also internally consistent. But most people don’t see it that way. The reason I have this opinion is just out of my own ‘moral intuitions’, if such things actually do exist. If you have different moral intuitions, then I can’t convince you and you can’t convince me, we can just comment about the consistency of our positions. But my point is that I see most secular humanists as picking and choosing whatever benefits them. When it’s not in their benefit to be ogled, they will call it disgusting, but when they do want to be ogled, they say it’s just fine.

        • http://www.facebook.com/people/Zebram-Zee/100002539017006 Zebram Zee

          I replied, but apparently the comment is in moderation because it was too long or something.

          • Brian Miller

            Oh.

          • http://www.facebook.com/people/Zebram-Zee/100002539017006 Zebram Zee

            I think they finally added it

  • Colin

    When I read this article, I thought these words from George Carlin:

    “They’re all in favor of the unborn. They will do anything for the
    unborn. But once you’re born, you’re on your own. Pro-life conservatives
    are obsessed with the fetus from conception to nine months. After that,
    they don’t want to know about you. They don’t want to hear from you. No
    nothing. No neonatal care, no day care, no head start, no school lunch,
    no food stamps, no welfare, no nothing. If you’re preborn, you’re fine;
    if you’re preschool, you’re f-d. Conservatives don’t give a s-t about you until you reach “military age”. Then they think you are just fine.”

    Here is the rest of the quote: http://www.allthelyrics.com/lyrics/george_carlin/abortion_part_1-lyrics-219961.html

    * http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/03/29/ryan-budget-early-education_n_1389239.html
    * http://www.huffingtonpost.com/jennifer-m-granholm/republicans-what-about-ch_b_1835134.html
    * http://www.americanprogress.org/issues/budget/news/2012/04/26/11373/house-republican-cuts-for-kids-by-the-numbers/

    I could list more, either from the state level or the federal level. I think though that I have made my point.

    If people on the right want abortions to stop, there are two things that must be done: 1.) proper sex education and 2.) create an economical and social environment that encourages women to have children. Not every women is blessed with money or common sense. Some do need help. That’s why the programs were created in the first place.

    Why does the right value the unborn more than the children who are born? Why is it right to starve children and to punish their mothers? Jesus valued children; I think the Christian Right should do likewise.

    • 2Gary2

      you are so right! the conservatives are hypocritical scum. Family values party my ass

  • nativeamerican2084

    Such a creepy article, to lump 1/2 the country’s population into “sluts and whores”, which the article insinuates, is just sad. A very one-sided view at the “problem”.

    It’s bad enough all the problems, but now the answer is circulating in many woman-bashing sites, which is “the fault lies with SEX and WOMEN”. The economic crash and wars are all because of the women…..and SEX. lol.

    That ought to be a relief to some, to know that none of the problems had to do with men. It was all those filthy dumb whore sub-human women. A pack of evil, dumb, bitches, who should be wiped off the planet after every guy gets his kicks first, of course…. LOL

    Is anyone really going to miss the American White male world role-model? Highly doubtful! Good riddance. Soon the Kooks (including the idiot that wrote this trash) will be inundated with newly arriving Chinese and other Asians…LOL

  • Noob

    Our society has been hjacked. Evil has thought it would be funny to completley sexualize our society. Notice how there’s alot of sexual films, and music nowdays? It is no coincidence. The world is run by possessed people.

  • Noob

    UPDATED:

    Our society has been hjacked. Evil has thought it would be funny to completley sexualize our society. Notice how there’s alot of sexual films, and music nowdays? Most people worship TV like a god. When there’s is a society that is hopelessley addicted to television, you can change what the general population mindsets are easily. There is no coincidence. Our world is run by possessed people.

    • Anon

      In the words of Aniken Skywalker (star wars ep. 3):

      “… and from my opinion the Jedi are evil!!”

      Evil is a point of view noob. To the people in power, they are good and you are evil. And what makes you right? Don’t throw the word “evil” arround so easily. Because you need proof of their evil.

      • The Good One

        Because they are admitted satanists…watch these 3 YouTube documentaries, the power behind the new world order, age of deceit: fallen angels and the new world order, and Aquarius: age of evil. After viewing those you won’t be able to deny the evil forces that are behind the scenes.

        Ephesians 6:12 – For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but again principalities, against powers, against the rulers of darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high places

        • 2Gary2

          do we wrestle against gog and magog?

          • Robert (qslv)

            And their consort – lady goga……..

        • Anon

          Star Wars is still a better story than the bible.

          • http://twitter.com/renate2009 gabriele

            because you don’t understand the bible doesn’t make Star Wars a better read

          • Jade Dusted Eyes

            Yes, yes it is!

      • Articulator

        @ Anon…

        LOL… you derive your life philosophy from a fictitious movie character? So if “evil is a point of view”, then is serial murder not objectively evil? You are implying that the serial murderer’s “point of view” is just as valid as the judge and jury’s. You are wrong… pure evil does exist, regardless of “point of view”.

        • Anon

          The point was a joke, dumbass

          • Jade Dusted Eyes

            Haha! Yeah… Dumbass.

    • laura ann

      there is absolutely no hope for America; I’m a retiree and have watched the downgrade since the early 60′s when prayer was banned in public schools. Then the music changed and fashion. The gov 501c3 IRS controlled “churches” are phony as they refuse to stand up or speak out. Cowardly gelding preachers are only concerned about their paycheck and retirement. The public schools are worse than ever. America is over and done; live for self/family and prepare.

      • Gay Veteran

        and yet the “Bible Belt” watches the most porn

      • Hammerstrike

        Do you know what percentage of the US population was involved in the independence war?
        Or even what percentage in the Russian Empire where actively bolcheviks in October 1917?

        Your country have no way to claime the entire continent anymore, third-world countries such as California, New York or Illinoise won´t go away unless there is a major thermonuclear or biological war but they may not be able to hold the continent together either.

    • Jade Dusted Eyes

      I stopped watching TV eight years ago. Mindsets of people are easy to recognize soon after you stop watching it. They’re brainwashed. I know there’s a small number of us in the states who choose not to watch, because there are many reasons to dislike TV – that’s for sure!

    • Tyler Higgins

      Jewever could you be referring to?

  • ceasar

    It’s like anything. People don’t show responsibility about
    money, education, public service, eating, drugs, or many other addictions, including sex. This isn’t a girl problem. It is a human problem. And as to women, I don’t think the issue is sexual revolution so much as the desire to be recognized as something other than Stepford wives. That is more the issue with most women than that they be recognized individually for some perverse sense of sexual liberation.

    Sex and the various issues that come from engaging in it is
    just one more issue blamed on women. By the way, no “sexual revolution” made women look like sex objects. That was infused into our masculine culture a long time ago. Probably after the Romans sacked the druids, a matriarchal culture. In any event, it takes two to tango. You would do better to pitch your rants at the medical industry to make sterilization and or birth control even easier to get—for both males and females. It never ceases to amaze me how people nearly abrogate their own (or their group’s own) sense of responsibility while they ask others not to forget to maintain theirs.

    As to the number of abortions being close to the number of military deaths, why don’t you mention that most of the soldiers are men and most of them are engaging in wars in countries we have no business being in. This is another
    issue of responsibility, like whether to rape someone or not. Rather though do we glorify the troops and war like we do sex in the media. And the lack of responsibility, on both sides of the gender line, feeds the steady national implosion.

  • WarriorClass3

    There is a simple solution to these problems: End Public Schooling and welfare. These destructive values are first learned in Public Schools and then supported by welfare. End it.

  • RJVB

    You must stop the esoteric religion, if you wish to stop anything else you must stop them first.

    Truth points to itself

  • Frank A

    When you turn from God and live your life your way this is what happens. We now live in a “Me only” world. Our nation like so many others in history has not learned what happens when you turn your back on God. God is caring and loving but he also will let loose his wrath on this Godless nation. What happens when killing someone for fun is the new thing to do. Who do you want to raise a child, a selfish uncaring,unfaithful person or a God fearing Bible believing parent. We can see how our nation is choosing

  • Anon

    By the way, your statements are mostly the same with all the other articles you post. Somehow, you turn it into another “abortion” argument.

  • Tim

    What’s really sad is that I know young women who were raised in conservative Christian homes who listen to Lady Gaga! I’ve seen it on their Facebook profiles. Many professing Christians lack discernment because they are not born again. There are many professing believers in the church today who are unregenerate, just like there were many in Israel who were not saved. What’s really scary is that many today think they’re saved because of something they did–they made a decision for Christ, said the sinner’s prayer, joined the church, invited Jesus into their heart, etc. Billy Graham has produced countless empty converts with his false gospel. Regeneration is by the will of God alone and man has nothing to do with it. Conversion is by means of the gospel. Cornelius in Acts 10 is an example of this. Cornelius was born again before Peter came to him with the gospel by which he was converted.

    “But as many as received him, to them gave he power to become the sons of God, even to them that believe on his name: Which were born, not of blood, nor of the will of the flesh, nor of the will of man, but of God.” John 1:12-13

    • Hammerstrike

      Maybe for them, the gaga stud is just a singer and not a postive role model?

      Read that on evangelist propaganda, you just have to believe in christ to be saved, you don´t have to “work” for it (entitled as hell), jews are also the noble, choosen people and must be supported at all cost.

    • Hammerstrike

      Perhapse they see that singer as that, a singer and not a positive life role model? Or am I being overly optimistic?

    • http://www.facebook.com/gerald.ngungo Gerald Ngungo

      we need people like you.

  • just_saying

    Where did all of these young women get these STD’s?

    • Articulator

      From the minority of alpha males that the majority of females flock to… that’s why men statistically have fewer STD’s than women.

    • 2Gary2

      conservatives–who else?

      • Jade Dusted Eyes

        Hahaha!!! You’re awesome!

  • CorruptionInColumbia

    Interesting how two comments have been sent to “moderation”, one of which was several hours ago. I guess the PTB on this site will not allow them as they don’t agree with the party line here.

  • “Anne with an E”

    Marriage will continue to fail in America until people start focusing on how to love one another. Marriages lasted a long time in the past because it was much more of a survival-based union compared to today (where women now have more employment options, and so the means to be more self-sustaining than before). Marrying for love is a relatively new development in history, it is more difficult for humans (both secular and religious) learn how to really love each other than to learn how to survive.

    • Oldphartbsa

      Perhaps I should not be talking about marriage in today’s
      world. However, I do have a perspective
      that possibly reflects on the evolution of marriage during the delta years from
      the 60’s to now.

      I was married on 02/14/1979.
      Basically, ahem, because ‘I had to’ and the beribboned shotgun held by
      dear old dad in law was double barreled and loaded with double-ought. Yes, we were (are) basically lower class
      white trash that had no clue what we were ‘in fer’.

      She’s told me that on 02/14/2013 we will have been married
      for 34 years. Somehow it seems longer.

      We went through our share of REALLY HARD TIMES. We’ve managed to stay married somehow because
      both of us has made an investment in the other.
      We’re in the hall sex era of marriage (passing each other in the hall
      and sniping ‘fuck you’) but we have a shared history that is so painfully deep
      that we’re sorta stuck, we’re both too messed up for anyone else to even
      register as a potential partner.

      We’ve forgiven each other so many times, on extremely bitter
      issues, that there isn’t much left that we can hurt each other with. And now we are getting a bit older, and
      falling apart, to where we’re both kind of overseeing the other. I know how disgusting she will be when she
      has the flu; she knows how whiny I get when I get the flu and we no longer
      mind.

      Those that are getting married these days seem, to me at
      least, to give up on the first adversity that comes their way. There is no forgiveness. There is no understanding. There is nothing but the immediacy of
      urges. Time scales have shrunk from
      months to hours. Offenses are taken over
      superficial things….she farts a ship’s horn in the morning, he burns the eggs,
      they don’t match clothing appropriately on outings, etc. Idiocy.

      If you want a marriage to last expect shit-storms between
      each other and learn to deal with them.
      People weren’t always disposable, in spite of what you’ve been
      conditioned to believe. You should find
      your spouse, once in a while, stupid, disgusting and ugly. Usually they simultaneously find YOU stupid, disgusting
      and ugly. It’s a draw, don’t let it get
      you down.

      Men, recognize the fact that every month, for about a week,
      you are the most vile, evil and loathsome person on the face of earth. Expect it, accept it. It will only last about 360 months. Women, recognize the fact that every month,
      for about a week, you are absolutely irrational…yet remain the sexiest, most
      beautiful, and smartest person in the world.
      Expect the reaction, accept it.
      It will only last the rest of your life.

      In scrolling through the comments I see that most blame the
      woman for the problems. As a guy, I
      would have to agree, however, and it’s a big HOWEVER, what I see today are guys
      that are women in their mindset. They
      have been taught and conditioned to view the world in a feminine perspective. In other words, most men less than forty are
      pusses. They truly don’t know how to be
      actual men. They lack the drive to
      protect the home-fire, guard and guide their family, or to shake off the
      attacks from the world at large.

      I can see why most women under forty find these guys
      unattractive.

  • Chris

    Rates of depression among American women are on the rise. No more Christian values nor morals. Women are drawn to online dating/porn and are trapped into it. Divorce rates skyrocketing and people losing there f!cking jobs due to China and Foreign banks are also leading are once great nation into a black hole.

    • Hammerstrike

      Then how comes Japan didn´t have these problems and even today, still have it less?

      They loose their jobs to China because they aren´t as good at them as they think they are, not just because Chinese workers ae cheap (forget shipping costs).

  • 2Gary2

    Most porn is consumed by red states who are supposedly christian family values type…

  • 2Gary2

    overall good article however a couple of thoughts: If you remove gays and minorities from the stats things look 100% better than the stats show. Heterosexual white folks taken as a group are no where near as bad as the stats show. This is not meant to disparage any group, however, these are facts.

  • 2Gary2

    here is the bottom line–people like having sex with multiple partners. Variety is the spice of life! humans are not meant to be with only one partner. I hear there is now such a thing as a starter wife/husband, similar to the starter home.

    • Birger_Skruddusvingen

      “here is the bottom line–people like having sex with multiple partners.”

      People may like all sorts of things, like comitting rape, theft, vandalism and other criminal activity. Like experimenting with drugs. DUI sounds exciting. That doesn’t neccerarily mean that it’s good for them (or others) and/or that they should be allowed to do so.

      “humans are not meant to be with only one partner.”

      Why not? If they did, at least we would have considerably less problems with the things described in this article.

      • Asmita Prasad

        the question here is this “do people really like having sex with multiple partners or is it something that has been glamorized as a desirable quality over time?” if the multiple partner theory was indeed true, the family unit would have died out a few centuries ago. it wasnt until half a decade ago that people started thinking that sleeping around is good for us and having a single partner is bad.

        • Mister Alighieri

          Humans are NOT monogamous. We have never been and never will be. You should learn more about marriage. What we call marriage today is nothing like what most marriages were historically The book “How we never were” is a good historical view of marriage. Before the idealized 50′s Marriage, the reason men married was to insure that offspring was most likely thiers. This pre-50′s family unit was about economy and inheritance much more than the “soulmate love” we now base marriage on. Men often had a wife and a mistress. One woman provided children and a home, the other provided love and sex. It was tolerated because women had no economic power (ie they had to keep the man they had because they couldn’t support themselves). With the advent of the Pill and women in the workforce, we have changed the dynamic of the power exchange in marriage. Men no longer have to get married for sex and can indulge in multiple partners with little issue. And women can support themselves and also enjoy multiple partners.

  • Hammerstrike

    “Is anyone really going to miss the American White male world role-model?”
    Are you going to come up with something better? Oh right, you don´t.

  • Hammerstrike

    “#9 Amazingly, one out of every five teen girls in the U.S. actually wants to be a teenage mother.”

    So? Nothing abnormal with them, that is how things have worked in 250 000 years for the human specie. and the birthrate of the US is below replacement too, like in pretty much every developped country.
    So as long as there is a father or good enough male role model, there no problems.

    • Birger_Skruddusvingen

      “and the birthrate of the US is below replacement too”

      That doesn’t mean that just about any births are welcome, or even acceptable.

      “So as long as there is a father or good enough male role model, there no problems.

      Except that some or most of them will be too young to legally marry, and no children should be born outside of wedlock.

      They may even be too young even to legally have sex.

      Or to rent or buy a home. Or work. Or drive.

      They may be too young, uneducated, inexperienced, stupid, spoiled, superficial, restless, irresponsible and/or poor to do their duties and chores, and get enough money to provide for their children (and their husband/the childen’s father if he gets ill, injuried or unemployed).

      Boys and girls: First grow up. Then get at least some education. Not to mention life experience. Then get an at least somewhat steady, well paid and decent job. And a sufficiently place to live. Save up some money for a rainy day. Then marry. Then have sex. Then have children, providing your genes are worth passing on.

  • http://www.facebook.com/kenadler3 Ken Adler

    “When men don’t have to wait until they get married to have sex, then they are likely to delay marriage or never get married at all.”

    Stop blaming men for not wanting to get married. The liberated woman is often an annoying shrew. The courts are stacked against HIM should they chose to divorce, and the economy is bad thereby making marriage a more costly proposal for the man who is most likely EXPECTED to be the breadwinner. Blaming men for this is BULLSHIT. If you want to see marriage rates increase women should learn to 1) behave themselves and not behave in this “liberated” fashion and 2) courts need to treat both parties fairly should there be a divorce. As it stands men have so much to lose in a divorce it’s a huge deterrent from entering that situation in the first place.

  • Virginia

    The American family has been disintegrating since the early 60s. There is no truer hell hole than parenthood. In fact, that show “Parenthood” is a prime example of how insane it all is. Watching it is downright painful although some find it entertaining. Nothing wrong with taking care of yourself in this life but if you one of the unfortunate ones who had a bunch of kids and then lost your job, house and spouse, you can always dump your kids on your mom and dad. After all, they were probably the ones that told you to have kids in the first place because they “wanted grandchildren” to spoil. Just sayin……

  • RMM

    What an odd article. The sexual revolution has been primarily led… by women. Women objectify men to a much greater degree than men objectify women, seeing them as nothing but a means to an end (get babies, resources), to be used and abandoned with complete callousness and bereft of empathy.

    It is women who initiate the majority of divorces. “Single parent” is a misnomer – the overwhelming majority of “single-parent” babies are in single mother households, a child is as likely to end with neither parent, i.e., foster home, as he is to end up living with the father alone (this is not an exaggeration, that’s what the stats say). And I am sure you have heard the term “single mother by choice”, uttered by… women. It is women who shriek and cry and raise hell when chastity is suggested. It is women who say “my body, my choice” and demand to have abortion available, no questions asked.

    The point about STDs is good. The solution is to stop subsidizing treatment. Cue shrieking women because, as usual, it is women who’re the primary beneficiaries of “free” government-sponsored wealth transfers.

    The points about porn are misstated. You’re engagin in what is known as the “Apex Fallacy”, whereas tthe condition of the “Apex” men who reap most of the benefits is assumed to be the condition of all men. The reason there’s so much widespread use of porn is because the average “dude” has little to no access to the sexual marked. Women vigorously chase after these “alpha” men that excite them and make their ginas tingle during their youthful years, when they’re in their sexual prime, and the rest of men have to make do with scraps.

    They’re, on top of that, expected to wait for these women to finish “having their fun” and then collect their sagging, STD-ridden asses to turn their nearly-rotten eggs into babies and provide them with cash and prizes (and if they don’t do it voluntarily, they’ll do it through divorce, at a 50% rate overwhelmingly initiated by the women), or take care of the little thuglets they had with the exciting players they effed during their prime.

    So, the use of porn is not the response to teachings of women objectification. It’s a release valve. It’s the methadone that lets the sexually deprived dudes get on with their lives without losing everything to the predatory STD-infected past-their-prime females that see him as a walking wallet to fund their dream lifestyles. If there was no porn at all, you’d see little change in men refusing to marry/commit, because marriage to the current crop of double-X is a sucker’s game. Nothing is a good replacement for a woman nowadays.

    So, to sum up, if you have a problem with the current state of the mating game, I suggest you take your grievances to the women. They’re the ones that demanded all the changes you now decry so much. True, they may have wanted the end result to be somewhat different (there’s too much in this article that stinks of “consequences”, a dirty word in feminist circles, where feeeeeeelings and emotions reign supreme and negative repercussions have to be dealt with by the patriarchal system that so oppresses them). Their poor planing, however, is not for us to deal with. They made this mess, and if they don’t like it (I suspect many of them do… until they get older and they suddenly don’t), they’ll have to clean up after themselves.

    • J.M.

      Finally some common sense in the article. However the only thing I disagree with you is in the issue of Porn. Porn weakens the mind of the viewer and alters in so many poorly understood levels. So as a matter of selfimprovement for men, for the sake of men, We as a gender should abandon that and use other venues to release our energies (maybe hmmm a revolution?)

  • babygirlway

    You are disgusting.

    • 2Gary2

      maybe but I am simply telling it like it is.

      • babygirlway

        I disagree. I find it very comforting that the husband that I married at 21 and have been married to for 21 years still loves me and is comfortable with me, flaws and all. He has aged and so have I, BUT WE LOVE EACH OTHER. The idea of having sex with someone else who has not experienced the ups and downs, or earned the scars that we have together, is repulsive. Sex with multiple people would require no emotional attachment and an immense amount of physical attraction, which by the laws of time and gravity become progressively harder with age. So my assessment is that when you say you want sex with multiple people, you are in essence admitting that you are a narcissist. You love the idea that many people would be willing to overlook your flaws. Get over it, they aren’t, they are just in love with themselves as well.

        • Anon

          We are all robots now!! Lets go terminate some ppl from the past, and cause a nuclear war, then try mob up the survivors!! Hurray to skynet!!

        • 2Gary2

          Me and my wife just celebrated our 25th wedding anniversary in early January. I never said I personally did these things, just what I think many people must think.

          • Brian Miller

            Must=/=Know.

            Trying asking before you assume anything.

          • Jade Dusted Eyes

            Hahaha!!! Total burn!!!

        • cynicfrombc

          Amen and Amen.

      • Brian Miller

        No, you’re telling it how YOU see it.

      • Jade Dusted Eyes

        True that!

    • Jade Dusted Eyes

      Generation Y is disgusting.

  • Wesley

    The solution is not take the 10 commandments out of the public eye, not take prayer out of schools, not encourage Sodomy and a whole lot of things that we are doing. There shd. be a public outcry about this. Know the difference between right and wrong, because we wanted this demarcation to be forgotten in the 1950s.

    • Gay Veteran

      “The solution is not take the 10 commandments out of the public eye, not take prayer out of schools, not encourage Sodomy and a whole lot of things that we are doing. There shd. be a public outcry about this. Know the difference between right and wrong, because we wanted this demarcation to be forgotten in the 1950s.”
      ??? are there no churches that publicly display the 10 commandments?
      there will be prayer in school as long as there are algebra tests. oh, you meant STATE sponsored prayer, yeah, that’s gone.
      encourage sodomy? pray how do you do that?
      yeah, the 1950s were great if you were white, male, and protestant

      • Anon

        Yaaaay!!! Death to America!!!!! XD

      • Hammerstrike

        How is abolishing the evil, white male patriarchy turning out to be?

        Without the hereosexual white male, you maggots cannot survive.

    • Anon

      Umadbro?

  • PAUL BAKER

    TYPICAL GOD SQUADING MIDDLE AMERICAN MORAL

    HIPPOCRACY P BAKER UK

    • Anon

      ^ TYPICAL INTERNET TROLLHATER ^

      • Anon

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  • Anon

    There are gonna be a lot of people who are gonna call you sexist, good luck dealing with their scathing hate comments!

    • Brian Miller

      When you call liberated women an “annoying shrew,” who wouldn’t call him that?

  • peter

    why can you people NOT GROW UP AND BE SERIOUS/RESPONSIBLE? this is the end of the line ONCE AGAIN for human achievements. we have been this far AND FURTHER before, we are simply going down YET AGAIN

  • James

    Imagine if those 50 million babies weren’t killed though? America would be even worse

    • Hammerstrike

      Yeah, with sane economical policies, the US would be able to pay both medicare and rebuilding infrastructures.

      • Anon

        ??? How did you derive that info?

        • Hammerstrike

          +54 millions abortions since 1973 for the USA and the USA is hardly unique in that aspect compared to the rest of the west.

          Thus, without it, population under 40 would have been much higher, even if a % of abortions still happened, as laws aren´t everything,

          A significant % of this extra would have had childrens too.

          So there would be a lot more workers available today. Not many more welfare leeches, since they have childrens in order to milk the system, not because they cannot afford birth control.

          Immigration would be lower thus wages would be higher, leaving people more motivated to work (no aging population and lesser work-americans-wont-do excuses), .

          There would be a higher drive toward outsourcing and some more unemployement but even so, the US citizenry would be generally slightly better off and the US slightly less dependent on the rest of the world through borrowed prosperity.

          But the real pro lay further ahead, after an end to borrowed prosperity and the current system, rebuilding would be easier.

          With this larger workforce, more work would be done or at least, there would be a smaller burden on each worker, allowing to support both re-industrialization, infrastructure rebuilding and supporting medicare as well, despite the growing number of baby boomers.

          • Gay Veteran

            “So there would be a lot more workers available today”
            get a clue junior, there’s not enough jobs for actual people living today

          • Anon

            That’s why we must build a Death Star, kill off the planet, and live on it. It would vaporize our enemies AND our lack of jobs

          • Birger_Skruddusvingen

            “get a clue junior, there’s not enough jobs for actual people living today”

            Then it’s a great thing that there’s virtually no (legal or illegal) immigration to add to the burden.

            Oh, wait a minute…

    • Birger_Skruddusvingen

      “Imagine if those 50 million babies weren’t killed though? America would be even worse”

      Well, I agree to some extent. But I guess some would be miscarried. While others would die in infancy or through murder, suicide or illegal abortions.

      Add to that less promiscuity and more use of contraceptives without abortion on demand. I hardly think that USA would’ve had as many as 50 million more inhabitants today.

  • James

    Also, women have been viewed as sex objects since the beginning of civilization, its not society, its just men, and women use it to their advantage

  • Hammerstrike

    “It is women who say “my body, my choice” and demand to have abortion available, no questions asked.”

    Demand it for free.

    • Birger_Skruddusvingen

      “Demand it for free, mind you!”

      A fortiori:
      “For free”, viz. paid for by others.

    • http://twitter.com/renate2009 gabriele

      its traumatic , so better think before making out.In a case of rape, no questions ask

    • Kelly

      Say no to abortion. Yes to life. End destruction.

  • Hammerstrike

    That´s right you are “on your own”, because you are not a powerless fetus, you are an adult.
    So you don´t want to take care of yourself? Neither do them, lol!
    How wicked and inhuman of these bible-clinging yankees for not wanting to pay more so the gubbermint can be your parent, oh the humanity!

    • Brian Miller

      A fetus is just as worse as a living breathing human in terms of picking themselves up from their bootstraps. While a person today could, technically, alleviate themselves from poverty, a fetus couldn’t do that. A fetus can’t do much of anything really.

      Again, why do you care more of a fetus than actual people?

      • Hammerstrike

        Human rights re for humans, not subhumans. :)

    • Brian Miller

      So you’re potentially setting someone else up to fail? Is that what you seem to be getting at? Sounds like it.

      • Hammerstrike

        You sure don´t need help when it comes at failing.

        • Brian Miller

          You sure do, if no one assists you when you need it or intentionality does so.

    • rebecca

      read it agian. you sound foolish that’s not what was said at all, he said from birth to adulthood you’re screwed “until you reach military age” doi. no offense but you went off and you didn’t even rebut what was said really so the point you made is a bit muted by that.

      • Hammerstrike

        LOL, last time I checked, draft in his country was abolished years ago.
        I laugh at the complete hypocrisie of george carlin and his fellow libtards.

  • Hammerstrike

    One way existed for less than 2000 years and already failing, the other for 250 000 years.

    So, evolution has spoken!

  • Hammerstrike

    Evolution is and remains the arbiter.

  • Hammerstrike

    It is generally worst among females than among males.
    More US abortions than there where military casualties in WW2 and WW1 put together, so the former is definitively worst than the Iraq and Afghanistan wars.

    • Gay Veteran

      abortions? and yet you STILL have not adopted an unwanted baby

    • rebecca

      yet theres still a man’s man stigma for these man whores and well sluts are still sluts. in fact a woman is still considered promiscuos having fewer partners than her male counterpart. so yeah statistic can be relative, that’s why most of them have asteriks on them somewhere.

  • Anon

    Execute order 66.5, in case of sexual rebellion, kill all the women (outcome = humans go extinct)

  • Anon

    Hey, anyone wanna burn some bibles, I wanna piss off some christians

    • Birger_Skruddusvingen

      “Hey, anyone wanna burn some bibles, I wanna piss off some christians”

      Well, at least the Christians most likely wouldn’t try to kill or otherwise harm you in revenge.

      Go and burn som Korans in stead, and see what happens. Or are you a coward?

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  • Magdiel

    That is why I always come to this website to know the truth brother Michael! I will never find an article like this in the mainstream media. Now,what is the solution for all this problem? There is but one: reestablish God the LORD Almighty in the schools,let the children be influenced by the only Source of love and purity,namely,Jesus Christ. But this society is so stupid and ignorant that they can not realize that. Hey,but the prophecies have to be fulfilled right? As in the days of Noah and Lot remember? But we have to be the light of this world reflecting God in every thing we do,and be a good influence for as many people as we can!

  • Colin

    This is what Ayn Rand had to said about abortion in 1981:

    “f any among you are confused or taken in by the argument that the cells of an embryo are living human cells, remember that so are all the cells of your body, including the cells of your skin, your tonsils, or your ruptured appendix—and
    that cutting them is murder, according to the notions of that proposed law. Remember also that a potentiality is not the equivalent of an actuality—and that a human being’s life begins at birth.

    “The question of abortion involves much more than the termination of a pregnancy: it is a question of the entire life of the parents. As I have said before, parenthood is an enormous responsibility; it is an impossible
    responsibility for young people who are ambitious and struggling, but poor; particularly if they are intelligent and conscientious enough not to abandon
    their child on a doorstep nor to surrender it to adoption. For such young people, pregnancy is a death sentence: parenthood would force them to give up
    their future, and condemn them to a life of hopeless drudgery, of slavery to a child’s physical and financial needs. The situation of an unwed mother,
    abandoned by her lover, is even worse.

    “I cannot quite imagine the state of mind of a person who would wish to condemn a fellow human being to such a horror. I cannot project the degree of hatred
    required to make those women run around in crusades against abortion. Hatred is what they certainly project, not love for the embryos, which is a piece of
    nonsense no one could experience, but hatred, a virulent hatred for an unnamed object. Judging by the degree of those women’s intensity, I would say that it
    is an issue of self-esteem and that their fear is metaphysical. Their hatred is directed against human beings as such, against the mind, against reason,
    against ambition, against success, against love, against any value that brings happiness to human life. In compliance with the dishonesty that dominates today’s intellectual field, they call themselves “pro-life.”

    “By what right does anyone claim the power to dispose of the lives of others and to dictate their personal choices?”

    (http://aynrandlexicon.com/lexicon/abortion.html)

  • laura ann

    Men should only enter a marriage with a prenup and keep a separate bank acct. in the 21st century. Frankly, why would most men now days even desire marriage like Ken says. Couples single or married are best remaining childless, so divorces are hassle free..no long term visitations or child custody fights like my bro got into, and friends sons when their wives ran off with someone else. When choosing a spouse, a women with a good career not wanting kids is ideal. Family life has been dysfunctional for decades in spite of the “ideal family” tv shows like the Waltons, and others going back decades. Spouses cheated then and divorce after ww2 was rampant. Today, men tell me most younger women can’t cook or keep house worth a damn…this is my msg to younger men and women.

    • rebecca

      it’s my understanding most men didn’t think their wives could cook well in the beginning of their marriage this has been a running joke for decades. and why is marriage this business arrangement what happened to making a life with someone you love because you love them. money money money all you people care about is money and gadget and cars bigger houses. wthck sex and money are two things that should have no founding in your decision to marry. i’m not naive i know most peole think i’m nutter butters for saying this but it’s so very true sex dissappears looks dissapear the money dwindles then what are you left with a person you can not relate to anymore. this is why i truly believe SEX and MONEY should have NO bearing on your decision to marry.

  • FredG

    Surely, the degeneration of mankind is the direct result of rejection of GOD out of their life. God taught humans to love, to have discipline and self control so that humans can live in peace.

    • Gay Veteran

      “God taught humans to love”
      and yet BOTH sides used the bible to justify their views on slavery

  • Anon

    So what right do you have to say that we can’t abort? Yay, you just supported chaos!!

  • Birger_Skruddusvingen

    “25 Signs American Women Are Being Destroyed By The Sexual Revolution And Our Promiscuous Culture”

    Not only women but men as well… Or rather, the whole society. Golly gee, what a travesty.
    .

  • liberranter

    SPOT ON!

    Why are American males today so hesitant to “commit?” Because “liberated” American women have made it a losing proposition for them to do so.

  • Brian Miller

    While I agree with some of the things you posted, I call hypocrisy on one where you cite the apex fallacy.

    While you’re not trying to pin men as all raping, wife-beating murders (excellent on your part), I also get the impression that you believe women in general are all deceiving, greedy whores.

    While using the Apex fallacy to defend men from generalizations, you just made an entire post worth generalizing women.

    Please elaborate.

    • RMM

      You can call whatever you want, it’s not going to make you right just because you called it.

      First of all, I never said “all”, and I generalized based on reality. That the majority of divorces are initiated by women is a fact. That the overwhelming majority of times women get primary custody of their children is a fact. The misandry of policies and laws involving men, women, and families, is well documented (you mentioned “greedy” in my generalizations, shall we talk about women, child support, and alimony?). And if you look at the stats about number of partners, sex, and spread of STDs, you’ll find that, indeed, women are being more promiscuous than the typical man, but the top men that make them wet are a hell of a lot more promiscuous than either the typical guy, or most women.

      That’s the Apex fallacy: Thinking that the situation of these men (who have the options to behave as they want and still get a bounty of poon) applies to everyone.

      Your post is simply another “not all women are like that”. Maybe, but pointless; I never said “all”, and finding the needle in the minefield is really not worth the cost or risk.

  • Abby

    When women rejected the wisdom of their grandmothers- they really lost their power over men. A man will do anything for a righteous woman who can properly care for his offspring & him. When she was told being a mother was not enough- she went looking toward employment for fufillment. A job does not have the eternal value of family & doing it right. Make a woman leave the family- & you’ve destroyed it from within.

    • UrAldr

      Well said. This reminds me of the ancient precept that “to ensure a strong and healthy society, it is most important that women are educated.” This understanding was well established in the “Golden Age” when the matriarchs were in highest esteem, before the rule of Kings. I will not call our current school education for good education, it is garbage compared to, as you called it, the wisdom of our grandmothers, where true education is to learn and live by rightousness. The moral corruption of women is ushering in the fundamental moral corruption of society at large. As you said: “A man will do anything for a righteous woman” but if he cannot find her, he will descend to vices.

    • Jade Dusted Eyes

      Are you a crack addict? Nobody should be put in a gender role or feel like that is what they should do. Use this paradigm and think about it?… A woman will do anything for a righteous man who can properly care for her offspring and him. When he was told being a father was not enough- he went looking toward employment for fulfillment. Make a man leave the family- & you’ve destroyed it from within.

  • Abby

    The problem with porn is if the man BELIEVES thats what the woman in the picture or on the screen is begging for; is “normal”. I don’t know of any woman who wants it “that” way. Porn is an unrealistic picture of a sexual relationship. What is done to the woman is degrading & unhealthy for her in the long run. If a man has a decent woman & she refuses to do those things- it may cost her the relationship.

    • Mister Alighieri

      Porn is the male equivalent of romance novels. Both are fantasies of what some men and women wish their life was like.

    • Jeff Cummings

      Women arw the fastest growing consumer of porn sweety. Nice steryotyping btw

  • http://twitter.com/renate2009 gabriele

    selfish, insecure, bored people have the need to change their partners , while they think happiness will come by spicing up life in exchanging their partners , I believe building a foundation with honesty , trust , conversations and belonging will give you everlasting satisfaction

  • housewife

    Ten million amens to this. Absolutely love it.

  • http://www.facebook.com/dawn.ladislas Dawn Ladislas

    Our society is being destroyed by divorce and out of wedlock pregnancies. Both have always existed of course and there are many reasons why both happen but it has gotten to the point where there are more divorced and never married parents then married parents. I would never date a man who has out of wedlock kids, especially if he has a few. One I can say “maybe he was young and foolish” but older is a problem.

  • Kelly

    That’s TV & entertainment for ya!

  • Maccahutch

    I found the article a little disturbing perhaps because it touched on many issues that have concerned me for some time.

    I don’t think that it is easy to assign the blame of the demise of woman, men or relationships to any one thing. There are a multitude of negative contributing factors in our fast paced society. I think to summarize my feelings or thoughts I would say that we are encouraged as a society to perceive most things as disposable. There seems to be little that is sacred any more. Both men and women have to look out for themselves. There is a confusion between the sexes as to what a partnership means, there is confusion on what our roles are in a relationship.

    It is a true shame that both sexes have to judge and weigh a relationship based on what they might lose. However selfishness is not new. To encourage our friends, family members and children to discredit the feelings of another is a mistake. As leaders, mentors and parents we can influence the lives of others and help them to make better decisions. Decisions to empower them to lead a fulfilling life based on the merits of their own efforts. Our media and our leaders are NOT doing this for us.

    Excessive consumption always has a consequence, whether obesity, sexually derived disease, debt or unwanted pregnancy. As adults, men and women, we have a choice of how to behave and how we influence others.

  • http://www.facebook.com/vickie.mack.18 Vickie Mack

    , This article is absolutely true -couldn’t have said it better myself.

  • http://www.facebook.com/vickie.mack.18 Vickie Mack

    My, are we bitter?

    • reality is just that

      Realistic actually. Logical and critical thinking in action.

      • rebecca

        logic and reason have no place in a world without joy and passion. you think you’re being realistic but you just cound cynical and scourned. pls i’m not trying to offend simply bored and trolling nicely as possible

        • John David Chandler

          You do realize that logic and reason are quite literally the antithesis of joy and passion? That’s cool though, I’m sure that quote would find a receptive audience in (insert new agey ‘feel good’ monist sophism cliche) group, but in the world of people who truly do value rationalism over the capacity to emote that quote gets you nothing more than a scoff and an incredulous laugh that you would in any manner try to establish a relationship between passions and rationalism…

  • im4truth4all

    An anthropologist by the name of J.D. Unwin initiated a study with the premise that marriage was not necessary and possibly even detrimental to the development of great societies. At the end of this study he completely reversed his hypothesis.

    “Perhaps the definitive work on the rise and fall of civilizations,”writes Fitzpatrick, “was published in 1934 by Oxford anthropologist J.D.Unwin”:

    In “Sex and Culture,” Unwin studied 86 human civilizations ranging from tiny South Sea island principalities to mighty Rome. He found that asociety’s destiny is linked inseparably to the limits it imposes on sexual expression and that those sexual constraints correlate directly to its theological sophistication and religious commitment.

    Unwin noted that the most primitive societies had only rudimentary spiritual beliefs and virtually no restrictions on sexual expression, whereas societies with more sophisticated theologies placed greater restrictions on sexual expression, and achieved greater social development.

    In particular, cultures that adopt what Unwin dubbed “absolute monogamy” proved to be the most vigorous, economically productive, artistically creative, scientifically innovative and geographically expansive societies on earth.

    The following are grave words for the USA that come from noted Harvard sociologist Pitirim Sorokin who was personally requested by the president of Harvard University to accept a position there. At Harvard, he founded the Department of Sociology. He found no culture surviving once it ceased to support marriage and monogamy. None.

    Now we can do a basic analysis of marriage in the USA. Current illegitimacy rates are as follows:

    Black 73%

    Hispanic 53%

    White 29%

    for an overall rate of 41%. Currently the rate of illegitimacy for women of all races under 30 is 53%.

    “Once a society departs from a social norm of absolute marital monogamy, social chaos ensues within three generations.” — Anthropologist Joseph Daniel Unwin

    Some statistics from single parent families:

    Graduate from high school less frequently
    -
    Suffer more addictions
    -
    Suffer more abuse
    -
    Twice as likely to become an alcoholic
    -
    Three times more likely to have a baby out of wedlock
    -
    Five times more likely to commit suicide
    -
    Five times more likely to fall into poverty
    -
    Twelve times more likely to be incarcerated.
    I guess the remaining question is “How much time do we have left ?”

  • Jayron

    Think that’s bad, what about the MTV series Teen Mom and crap like that. I mean WTF?

  • rebecca

    i believe finding that needle is worth all the risk otherwise what would be the point? so i have read further and you are generalizing okay.either way i can see you are very adamant in your position. the bounty of poon they are getting are women with emotional issues, low self esteem, and i’m not crying out not all women are like that some are some aren’t what i’m pointing out is the way you speak makes it sound as if you have lupmed all single mothers into a categoy of money hungry disease ridden skanks. it’s difficult to be objective with such a harsh statement. i persist, you never said all you implied it and that is enough. i think everyone is just being overly promiscuous period. but there is someting to be said for a man who finds value in the substance of a person, this bond is much more poerful and lasting than anything derived from base desires. we are a nation of troglydites, human intellegance ignored and hormones and flesh rule our actions and motives. a man must be able to stimulate my mind before he has a chance at stimulating anything else. i have found a few admittedly they are scarce, quite scarce. they do exist. this notion alone makes the risk worth the cost.

    • Tyler Higgins

      As one of those rare single fathers, the circumstances leading to that could see me choosing to feel embittered and hostile towards women. I agree with much of RMM has to say, but feel his indictment is far too sweeping. I’ve known single mothers that set out to be just that, and trampled over the father, but I’ve known many more that are struggling because the father makes little or no effort to contribute or even to be a father. Liberalism and feminism have indeed wrought great harm, upon not just women but families in general. But there are many men who have a good woman and are completely undeserving of her, not worthy to call themselves a man. I’ve been single over 2 years, since my daughter was 3 months old, not because I’ve finished with women but because I won’t give up hope that the right one for us is out there.

  • rebecca

    oh you moniter the viewing habits of the entire populace living in the south east!!! where do you find the time?

    • Gay Veteran

      get clue, darling

      “…In 2009, Benjamin G. Edelman of the Harvard Business School published the results of a state-by-state study on the number of people who were subscribing to adult membership Web sites; Edelman found that eight of the 10 states that had the highest per capita consumption of online porn were states that Republican John McCain won in 2008’s presidential election. Utah topped the list, and other red states in Edelman’s top 10 included Oklahoma, Mississippi, Arkansas, Louisiana, Alaska, North Dakota and West Virginia. The only states in Edelman’s top 10 that Obama won in 2008 were Florida and Hawaii….”
      http://www.alternet.org/story/154539/the_bible_belt's_love_affair_with_(gay_and_straight)_porn

  • rebecca

    early 50′s

  • Rhiannon

    I’m a woman. I want children. I want a marriage. I want to be loved, and I want to love and please my husband. I already do this and am happy to. A lot of women are being destroyed by not only the media, but everyone around them.

    1. Women are told they should all go to college, get high-paying “power” jobs, and beat out their would-be husbands in the work force.

    2. Women are constantly told they make less than men, so they should work even harder to breach that gap.

    3. Many women are not told that the reason why the gap exists is because men have been working longer than women in power positions and thus have gained seniority. This change has happened in a short enough time that many men who make money still hold their power positions.

    4. Women are also told that making money, being independent and powerful will attract men to them over being feminine and dependent.

    5. A lot of women don’t realize that being a wife and a mother does not mean that they can’t have a job or hobbies as well. They are taught those roles force them to sacrifice everything.

    6. Other women have made it extraordinarily difficult to be a mother. For instance, who do you really see complaining about breast feeding in public?

    7. Women are taught that all men are out to sexually destroy them.

    8. Women don’t realize that they are powerful just being women.

    9. Women are told to make themselves more masculine.

    10. Women in America are being taught they are still the queens of the world, and refuse to look at other culture’s behaviors (the women of the world BEYOND the United States). They dismiss it as men wanting weak, submissive women who they can control.

    As you can see, many women are being led astray. Also, many women are naturally jealous, and do not like for other women to garner more attention than themselves. Destroying each other is the name of the game and all for one very ironic reason: to be the girl who wins the guy in the end.

  • Hammerstrike

    Considering she admired a serial killer for not caring at all about others and that she was a cult leader…

  • Hammerstrike

    Easy then, abolish those laws.

    Grow up? Avoiding that is the main driver behind abortion, so nothing would get in the way of a spoiled, irresponsible and stupid lifestyle.

    But the consequences of this lifestyle, that run rampant for decades, is now catching up with everyone.
    No more fancy cars, no more latest luxuries, no soccer games, no elections no more retirement too for the pionniers of hedonism.

    • Birger_Skruddusvingen

      “Easy then, abolish those laws.”

      Abolish which laws?

      Grow up? Avoiding that” etc.

      Agree.

  • disqus_E10BF8vEew

    There are a lot of statistics flying around up there; may I have some of you sources. As a general rule, statistics can be twisted into saying anything- so I would like to validate you information.

  • Asmita Prasad

    interesting article. i find it quite amazing that american women worked so hard to get “liberated” but not having “a man” is still undesirable. Men are not “NEEDED” yet everything american women do (hair, clothes, makeup, the focus on the body) is about attracting a man. perhaps they should have kept their bras on and asked for the right to be considered pretty without makeup or fancy clothes and labels! that would have leveled the playing field and maybe all the money saved would help women become homeowners even without a mate and give them financial security without having to snag a man for it.

    • Erin Tarn

      I’ve said this a few times. “Even the most militant feminist still wears makeup.”

  • Marti

    The prevailing worldview of this country has shifted from more Bible based to a more humanistic one. The Bible teaches that individuals are supposed to be self sacrificing which I believe people probably were that way at one time. Kind of like help your neighbor. Now a days we generally don’t even know who our neighbor is. Humanism contrary to the claim that it is altruistic is really selfishness. Self esteem, self love and look our for number one is really the religion of this age. It started in Genesis when the demonically possessed “serpent” (not it was not a talking snake) manipulated Adam and Eve and told them they are gods. All religions in the world except Christianity teach that you are your own god or christ. And the reason MOST Christians today are weak and ineffective is because they don’t live the Word (Bible). They keep a Bible on the shelf and they never read it and they lack the discernment to understand it because they have not been baptized In Jesus’ Name. (ACTS 2:38)

    Because of the shift to humanism and the rise of selfism, there is NO foundation on which to base our values or morality. This is why the relationships between women and men are so screwed up. If you believe the Bible there is an order in the Kingdom of God. It’s too much to go into here but God’s order is OUT OF ORDER PERIOD.

    • Erin Tarn

      People stopped believing in Christianity and so no longer have a fear of the after-life. They live each day thinking it’s their last and they cave to their every selfish desire. People say religion is about control. But is that control so bad when it kept people friendly and helpful?

  • cook

    why is lady gaga on there?this has been going on before she even came out.

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=1396855720 Brian Jones

    PERFECTLY stated!!!

  • UrAldr

    Ayn Rand is a tool for evil in this world, don’t be a fool. For the love of all that is good, forget about her and read up and get inspired by greater minds. Do yourself and us all a favour and never quote that demon possessed wretch again. May God bless you.

  • adam giboney

    lol – and the west think they have the right to tell other less powerfully countries what to do

  • Tired of BS

    Men screw and women get screwed.. does anyone see the parallels? An average 22 year old woman being promiscuous has had approximately 10 partners in her life.. Males 15-20.. we judge males less because they are the ones “conquering” while the women are being “conquered”. As for the man’s man stigma, if a man is to manly he is a chauvinist, not manly enough and he is to sensitive. Women demanded something and when it was given to them they didn’t want it.

    • Jade Dusted Eyes

      Wow! As a sensitive man, I never thought that it had negative connotations. Dang!

  • Jeff Cummings

    You are reminded tha the chinese abort females there honey just sayin ,,,, but nice try… next time think harder

  • Ibby Abbas

    As Americans unjustifiably destroy the third work country, they themselves are being destroyed from within. Just goes to prove what a fail America is.

  • dan

    The article is beating around the bush.
    The problem with American culture is the agenda to promote assertiveness and leadership in women and docility in men thus destroying both. It’s in the media, movies and , increasingly, music. I refer to it as femi-nazism.

  • Jade Dusted Eyes

    Very well put! “Nothing wrong with taking care of yourself…” Some people have a hard enough time taking care of themselves.

  • Jade Dusted Eyes

    “Humans are not meant to be with only one partner.” That is a fact! Humans are not meant to be monogamous.

  • Jade Dusted Eyes

    Why not? Humans are not meant to be monogamous. They never should of started. It’s not natural. Research it if you want… I wrote a paper on it in college.

  • Jade Dusted Eyes

    Finally! A very intelligent and agreeable statement. Thank you!

  • Jade Dusted Eyes

    No truer words said!

  • Unknown

    The sexual revolution is a cancer that is destroying everything that is good in life. All of the comments arguing blame of sexes are only supporting this fact. It has negatively affected all sexes… and the youth of America as well. It has been a sad decay of our society.

  • billy

    Does anyone really think this culture change was a accident? The media, music industry and Hollywood create the culture we live in. These people have had a agenda to destroy our culture and church for many years and with their control the media and Hollywood they have been very successful. They also started the women’s rights movement and abortions on demand.

  • H_Harker

    Just in America? lol. Yep, only in America do couples not wait to get married before they have sex, people are promiscuous, move in together before they get married and there are out of wedlock births, or are being taken care of by the government. Everywhere else is a pristine bastion of old-fashioned Victorian morality….yep, sure is, lol.

  • felicia

    This is an important article for all women to read!!!

  • Albert Jann, Montreal Canada

    Look around you, the whole bio life is based on the deception
    not on the honesty. Once, when man was man he could tame women sexuality to
    family. Since man became very weak (and gay) this control almost lost. Now women
    use the best she got, sexual deception (not brains) and they are very successful
    as such. Don’t blame woman, blame the universe or it’d maker in such an ugly design.