This Is What Happens When Young Men Are Taught That Scoring With Women Is The Ultimate Goal In Life

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Elliot RodgerElliot Rodger is a horrifying example of how badly we have failed young men in America.  You see, the truth is that his obsession with sex and losing his virginity did not come out of nowhere.  Rather, it was the result of being constantly immersed in a sex-obsessed culture for the past 22 years.  In America today, our young men are constantly being bombarded with sexual messages in advertising, in television shows, in video games, in movies and on the Internet.  They are literally being trained to believe that scoring with women is the ultimate goal in life.  So we should not be surprised when their behavior reflects this underlying philosophy.  Of course very few of our young men become mass murderers like Elliot Rodger, but the crisis that we are facing is much broader than that.  The obsession with illicit sex that our young men have is destroying millions upon millions of lives, it is spreading sexually transmitted diseases like wildfire, and it is a huge factor in the decline of the American family.


22-year-old Elliot Rodger is the son of Hunger Games unit director Peter Rodger.  He was deeply immersed in the culture of Hollywood, but he was incredibly frustrated that he was not able to have the kind of lifestyle that Hollywood had always promised him.

He greatly lamented the fact that he was “still a virgin” and he was incredibly frustrated that he had never kissed a girl.  He couldn’t understand why “girls gave their affection and sex and love to other men but never to me”.  He especially seemed to hate the “spoiled blondes” who rejected him, and he stated that he believed that “the ultimate evil behind sexuality is the human female”.

Thanks to the YouTube videos and the “manifesto” that have been revealed, we know quite a bit about what Rodger was thinking.  Obviously this was a very sick and twisted individual who viewed the young women around him as sex objects.  Just consider these quotes…

-“I feel so invisible as I walk through my college because none of the girls there pay attention to me. I see so many beautiful blonde hair, just so many beautiful blonde hair girls walk around everywhere. In your revealing shorts, your cascading blonde hair, your pretty faces. And I want one for a girlfriend.”

-“I do everything that I can to appear attractive to you. I dress nice. I’m sophisticated and magnificent. I have a nice car, a BMW. Well, nicer than 90-percent of people in my college.”

-“I’m 22 years old and I’ve never had a girlfriend. I’m still a virgin. I’ve never had the pleasure of having sex with a girl, kissing a girl — I’ve never even held a girl’s hand. Hell, I don’t even have a young girl’s phone number in my cell phone.”

-“I moved to Isla Vista with the goal of losing my virginity and attaining the life I desire.”

-“College is the time when everyone experiences those things such as sex and fun and pleasure. But in those years I’ve had to rot in loneliness. It’s not fair. You girls have never been attracted to me. I don’t know why you girls aren’t attracted to me. But I will punish you all for it.”

-“I’m going to enter the hottest sorority house of UCSB and I will slaughter every single spoilt, stuck-up, blonde s**t that I see inside there. All those girls that I’ve desired so much, they would’ve all rejected me and looked down on me as an inferior man if I ever made a sexual advance towards them.”

Did you notice a certain word missing in all of those quotes?

The word “love” is nowhere to be found.

To Rodger, the goal was simply to have sex.  The thought of getting married and committing to one woman for a lifetime does not even seem to be on his radar.

Sadly, we have trained an entire generation of young men to think this way.  In this day and age, most young men consider young women to be objects of sexual desire to be enjoyed for a while and then discarded when they grow tiresome.

One of the things greatly fueling this kind of thinking is our national obsession with pornography.  If you don’t think that this is a problem, just consider the following statistics from a recent Daily Mail article

Porn sites get more visitors per month than Netflix, Amazon and Twitter combined, a third of all downloads contain porn and the Internet now hosts 4.2 million porn websites, said Dines, who is also president of the international feminist group Stop Porn Culture.

‘Porn is without doubt the most powerful form of sex education today, with studies showing that the average age of first viewing porn is between 11 and 14 — and let me tell you, this is not your father’s Playboy,’ she said.

‘These degrading misogynist images have become the wallpaper of our lives and they are robbing young people of an authentic healthy sexuality that is a basic right of every human being.’

When young men spend hundreds upon hundreds of hours looking at such images, it permanently alters the way that they view women and romantic relationships.

And as I mentioned above, this is causing a tremendous amount of damage in our society.

For example, according to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, approximately one-third of the entire population of the United States (110 million people) currently has a sexually transmitted disease.

In addition, the United States has the highest teen pregnancy rate on the entire planet, and in my previous article entitled “Sex And The Public Schools” I noted that there are 20 million new cases of sexually-transmitted disease in the United States every single year, and Americans in the 15 to 24-year-old age range account for about 50 percent of those new cases.

Meanwhile, the marriage rate among young people is at an all-time record low, and the American family is in the worst shape ever.

The fact that Elliot Rodger is now off the streets does not mean that anything has been solved.

This problem is much, much larger than one twisted college student.

We have an entire society that is absolutely obsessed with illicit sex, and we have millions upon millions of young men that believe that scoring with women is the ultimate goal in life.

Until that changes, we are going to continue to suffer the consequences.

  • Clyde Williamson

    So if young men often view women as sex objects, then what do the young ladies think? Well, often they think of men the same way. The problem isn’t just men; it’s both men and women, and I’d argue somewhat more so among women than men.
    In addition, using a self-described feminist as a source for young male sexual behavior is about as reliable as using a map showing the world as flat to sail from the U.S. to Japan.

  • TruthIsAll

    Indeed, the problem is with both men and women. Men have been bombarded not just by media, but by their fellow humans. We have plenty of violent media, but most of us don’t go around reveling in it (at least not yet). The opposite is true of sexuality. In this race to prove our mettle in primal prowess we’ve surrendered ourselves to that one sole goal and thusly made it the perfect weapon for women. Many women love that and don’t hesitate to use it. Talk with any number of military men and you’ll find many men that have been used and traded in for “better models”. The combination of eroded morals and what is essentially a pen of studs is the reason. That’s what happens anytime a class of person is given excessive social privileges. This craziness won’t end until women stop trading up men and treating human relations like a game.

    • Magdiel

      I agree with you guys that both men and women are to blame for this problem. Women must regain that modesty and purity that used to abound in them and quit dressing like whores or sexual objects,mini-skirts,small and tight shorts showing their thighs and what-not,etc. In order to get out of all this mess this society must go back to the good old times when women used to remain virgin and living with their parents until they found their ture one love to spend with him the rest of their lives. The men must also regain the place the have lost in society. They must be,according to the very Word of God, the head of the household,and therefore of society. Modern men must regain those manly virtues which we have lost. Most of all we must love God and keep His commandments. If we don’t do this,every thing else is in vain.

  • DJohn1

    What a waste!

    This young man could have been so much more. The people he damaged could have had a life, if not for him.

    When I asked the Lord for a mate, I did not go to a bar. I went to church. I had three Christians to pray with me. I had them pray that the right person would come along for me.
    18 years of marriage later, I still feel that way. The Lord found me a wife that was both comfortable and right for me.
    It took me two years to convince her to marry me. I haven’t ever regretted it. Through thick and thin, whatever life has thrown at us, we are soul mates.
    Was this young man involved in Christianity? That might have made a difference.
    Finding a woman is not easy for a young person in today’s world.
    Being brainwashed by computer games is very possible.
    I suggest the government needs to take a lot of these games right out of circulation. That is a very unpopular decision. It needs to be looked at very closely.
    As an ad builder for most of my life, I can tell you all about decision making and how it is effected with vulnerable minds both on TV and other media. There is a reason why an advertiser will spend hundreds of thousands of dollars on advertising in various media including advertising on all internet sites.
    Most play to the semi-conscious area just below our decision making ability. It is often guaged at a kindergarden level and repeated several times on TV. These people are experts in psychological manipulation.
    About 1 in a million is so vulnerable that they can be programmed to do just about anything. I think we need to look into the background of this individual to find out if he is one of those people that are so vulnerable.

    I look suspiciously on any activity that the result is to disarm the general public. And that is definitely on the agenda after this tragic event. This agenda has been between the crosshairs for this administration from the very start.

    I look at this young man and I have to wonder was he someone that was pointed in this direction by some agency? It is happening on a regular basis and far too often for my liking. It did not happen this often in history.

    We also need to know, was this person on psychiatric prescription drugs at the time this happened?

    • Cynical Guy 42

      True, I suppose he could’ve been brainwashed by computer games. But you should also take into account other forms of media as well. The article made a valid point of how our society bombards people with perverse messages. Not to mention the boy may’ve attended public schools, where promiscuity is an issue.

  • Guest

    Hey Mod why can’t we quote the bible here? Is that offensive to you?

  • Richard

    Seems when I used the forbidden word (rhymes with Mex) my post gets banned. So let’s try it this way:
    Michael, what in your opinion should a man do when he has mexual needs that he can’t get met because no woman will have mex with him?

    • Guest

      I think certain words will cause a comment to go into moderation, so you won’t see it until it’s approved.

      As for your question, find a wife.

      • Richard

        Yeah, that’s what I thought… typical, insensitive, UHMUHRUHCUHN response. OK, it’s just you. Riiiiight. NOT A SINGLE OTHER VIEWER opposed what you had to say until I came along hours later. You Americans are truly the scum of the earth. No, the “right answer” was, “Go out and choose one of many of our wars we happen to be fighting worldwide when you get “the urges” and go and fight in it. That’ll take your mind off mex and all the other silly temptations you might be harboring… like robbing a bank, or closing a bridge (to spite your opposition) or eavesdropping on someone’s phone conversation…. Yeah, that should do it for you.” What a hellish race!

        • Yahno

          Your posts are too vague for anybody, even if they desired to do so, to give you the advice you seek…which is one of the reasons nobody responded. The second reason is your rant when nobody responded fast enough. Review your own personal behavior and see if it is something, if a woman had YOUR personality, would attract you to her. If not, there’s the rub.

  • pissedlizard كافر ‏

    I wonder what psych meds he was on and what kind of twisted things are on his computer(s)…
    This is what happens when you raise a kid to think that he is the most special thing in the universe and give him everything he wants (like a BMW at the age of 22. And 300$ sunglasses). He says he is “tortured” and cannot possibly be socially inept because he is “the ultimate man” (HIS words). These rich kids have no clue what torture means. They have no clue what suffering is.
    Mommy and daddy are as responsible for this mess as he is, thank God he did not use an “assault rifle” and incidentally, how many blacks were murdered in Chicago on the same day by handguns? Seems the narrative of white shooters just goes on and on and on.

    • John

      This kid had some expensive toys, but that isn’t what’s really important. I don’t want to judge the parents too quickly–I don’t know them, after all–but this kid’s value system was warped. That doesn’t just happen. Was it his parents or society that messed up? How much is totally on him? I don’t know.

  • Houtex77

    If he has not received God’s free gift of salvation by faith alone in Christ alone, he is now in a place where there is no possibility of parole – forever!

  • Jason7189

    Immorality or Sexual/suggestive images glorified on TV as fun and without consequence is making Society turn into, something like Sodom and Gomorrah. Impulsiveness and without self control, are a fruit of having no moral compass.

    This young man was mentally sick, as well as Spiritually sick. TV and Social Media, played a large contributing factor in his actions.

  • jaxon64

    excellent post Mike…”me first”..”self involved”..”self satisfying”…it all has a name
    Ultimately we all will choose between the Divine..
    or we will choose “Humanism”. Our society degenerates toward those who are lovers and pleasers of self, more and more every day.

  • Hiroshi Yamamoto

    Well, in the case of this “gentleman”( looking like a cheap version of New Vegas Presley) from the picture (and not only he’s) I could say they are more about a score with a men.
    In XXI century “gentleman” is simply a gay male.

  • captain

    Modern day feminism has caused the decline of this society

  • This incident is so tragic…I can’t imagine what the families of those who got killed are going through

  • K2

    I feel the same too. There is much more to this story. He looks good, has a BMW and yet cant find a girl? Unless he has bad breath/bad bod odour…something doesnt add up. Not saying all girls look at only these things, but quite a few of them do, the same way quite a few of the men look at women’s physical beauty mainly.

  • K2

    Good point.

  • Guest

    Hard to believe.

  • El Pollo de Oro

    In The Banana Republic of America, a rule among politicians is “Never let a tragedy go to waste.” So expect Democraps to beat the gun control drum and stomp on the 2nd Amendment and neocon Republi-cons to come up with ways to beef up the police state. But as The Patriot Nurse has said, governments kill a hell of a lot more people than lone gunmen or terrorists (Mao, Pol Pot, Hitler, Stalin, Mussolini, Pinochet). in the grand scheme of things, we have a lot more to fear from the bankster/government alliance (which fits the definition of fascism) than we do from nutcases who go off the deep end.

  • El Pollo de Oro

    IF Elliot Rodger’s #1 desire was to get laid, all he had to do was head four hours south of Santa Barbara, cross la frontera and visit one of the “zonas de tolerancia” in Tijuana. But dudes who are that messed up have intimacy issues. Even a hooker in Tijuana might not have prevented him from going off the deep end.

  • xander cross

    This article is way off. First the dude was a white supremacist and this article did not post his racist remarks about interracial couples. He targeted those girls because he seen them around black men and he even wrote this in his manifesto. Second, the fact the the media made this into an “he’s an troubled kid, he is to privileged to be charged with a crime,” is the reason enough that his kind is protected by the rich society.

  • jlofurf

    This has a lot to do with brainwash this story sounds so fishy I get rejection emotional content from the opposite gender all the time never thought of blowing anybody away. This kid may have been deeply wounded by his family and sought to subside that hurt with booty.

  • DJohn1

    Just a little update. I was listening to the news tonight and they featured this guy and the people he killed.
    What stuck out was he was under the care of Multiple Professionals. That implies multiple drug prescriptions by various professional psychiatric doctors. So it would be nice to clarify if he was on drugs when he killed these people.

  • Jacob Shelton

    Good for you sir,I myself feel the same way now I wish I had waited till I met my current girlfriend who we both feel we are met for each other and plan on marriage in the future?Too many days over the years I spent on games or “internet” browsing :( I regret my wasted time and the damage I did to my soul but with the right woman and a second chance we all can lead full happy lives :)

  • Cynical Guy 42

    Unfortunately, it seems like we are headed in that direction.

  • Zaporizhian Sich

    He was not a white supremacist, and he killed both Asians and whites in his crazed rampage. He hated whites, that was why he murdered those women.

  • bankstah

    Yeah, the Roman empire went christian and the US is the most christian society on earth. So they are following the same path alright. I want to point out that christianity is a Jewish religion

  • Gay Veteran

    bilge from a pharisee

  • Nicole

    One big issue I believe that is missing in this article, is the fact that this man also had psychological problems. I do not know specifics on anything he was diagnosed with but any disorder that could have been present would change many of the “facts”. Maybe he was a pathological liar and everything he said was false, or something. Who really knows. Anyway, I don’t think blaming everything on his view of women is really getting to the root of why he committed a mass murder.

  • FortuneSeek3rz

    Just the opposite. He made several racist comments towards whites in his manifesto.

  • Elliot rodgers was the product of a corrupt, morally bankrupt society of bullies and degenerates.

    He came from a pretty weak family household and dealt with divorce. An alienated and isolated childhood, being severely bullied in school, and having few real friends caused him to turn to the dark side and grow up to be an extremely anti-social guy hell-bent on destruction.

    Sexual casualization, high divorce rates, and a man hating culture are the products of feminism and roughneck roidmonkeys. You aren’t a lesser man for losing your v-card. A real man (and a real woman) is a loyal, intelligent, caring, and polite person dedicated to the advancement and progress of his family, town, county, state, nation – and ultimately, the world.

    But millenials and z-tards are the worst generations on record. We have neglected our offspring and discarded our parent’s hard work. These younger generations – children of a digital era, are nothing but braindead, morally bankrupt savages.

    Not all of them though.. but like most LOL

  • David Bolduc

    Maybe it’s just me, but a slightly darker shade of lipstick might have helped him more w the chicks … just sayin’. The pink he’s wearing in the photo’s kinda, like, g a y. Not hatin’ on my gay bro’s. Just suggesting it’s not a p*ssy magnet!